How to deal with failure?
Accept your flaws:
No one is perfect in the world, everyone has a fault but it can be removed. Some people pretend to be born perfect, and pretend to others because they have a hard time in society. They are those who feed on the miseries of others. Actually in reality no one is perfect but time and challenges make them perfect.
If someone wants to become perfect in life he must accept his flaws. Embracing flaws doesn’t mean living with them but working on them and fixing them. Working on one’s weak point makes him one’s strength. Once you face your flaws you grow. For example, if you are a slow hand writer, you must complete the paper in less time than you should accept the reality of a weak point and work on it. The real courage is to face the weak side. Once the Chinese Philosopher said that, it’s better to be a diamond with a flaw than a pebble without. When you hold this truth firmly, you create a nurturing environment around you.
Learn from the experience:
Past is history, and the present is in your hand, to build the future. Experience plays a key role in framing the future. Analyze the mistake, minimize it, and hit when the iron is red. Set realistic expectations for the future.
Motivate yourself:
Stop crying and weeping over a miscarriage. Tie your belt for your goal, don’t wait for someone who pushes you. One thing you know about yourself is, that no one can understand you more than you. Sit down in a relaxed mode, and talk alone to yourself. You need to understand that you know your talent, no one else does. Now when you have failed, you know what you need to work on and what motivates you. Converting a failure into a victory requires managing one’s self. You need to start working again. Even if a building needs to be constructed from ashes, it must be built without wasting time. Also, instead of blaming your fate for the future, you must take responsibility for the future whatever the result you face.
Conclusion:
In conclusion, life is such a beautiful journey. It does not deserve to be destroyed by just one failure. It has a lot more that is to be achieved. As Winston Churchill said, The Pessimists see difficulty in every opportunity but the optimist sees opportunity in every difficulty. Instead of crying over what had passed. An honest and loyal struggle can create better than what is being missed. Success and failure go hand in hand. To achieve one, another cannot be neglected. For this reason, the secret of life lies in the fact that we must accept failure with dignity and keep on trying instead of giving up.
